This question appears in my mind since long time ago . According to some of my friends , they said that our life looks like the movie that we watched everyday . From the movie we watched , we easily can guess the ending or the result for some of the problems that the character faced to . For example , the female or the male character will have the disease or have the reason that forced him or her cannot together with him or her likes they are brother or sister . From here , we can conclude that the life in the movie is straight forward and easy . However , compared to the reality , is that life that we go on now equal to the movie ? In my opinion , i do not agree on this .
In reality , we sure will quarrel with someone include our own parents or brothers and sisters . In the movie , this quarrel sure will have a good ending at the last episode . Good ending means that they will understand each other and forgive each other . However , in the reality , there are some quarrels that don't have the good ending like the movie . For example , the son will hate the father forever or the bother hate the sister when they quarrel with each other . The message that i want to say here is there are no such thing called perfect thing in the real world . So , i can say that the movie just show the perfect world to us . In the other words , it can be said that it give a hope or a dream to us .
Second thing is the female character always fall in love with the male character in the first slight . Is this case happen usually in the reality ? I don't think so . However , I don't mean that this kind of fall in love with people would not be happened , but just it happen in a low probability only . From here , i can say that the movie just a way to cheat us about the finding love . For me , i don't fall in love with a girl when i just meet her one time only . I just have the good feeling on her after meet her in the first time . And then i will start to focus on her like knowing her interest hobby or other things . If i like her after few time going out with her , then i will say i like her . HOW ABOUT YOU ?
After saying these , i feel that watching movie is a good way to relax our mind or a good hobby . However , we can't fully trust on the movie because it just the dream world of the directer himself . So , i want to say movie does not equal to our life !!!!!
Monday, November 24, 2008
Monday, November 17, 2008
wHy I sTiLl aLiVe ?
I think that this sentence will always appear in our mind , especially for the teenagers because they stay at the intermediate stage of the culture and moral values between the youth and the adult world . For those who can't face the pressure or the hardship , they will act differently or do something that totally strange and weird to us . This show that they in the problem on this . In my opinion , there are some reasons for us to stay alive in this world .Let us discuss on it .
First at all , i think that the reason for us to live in this world is to complete our learning process in this world . I don't mean that only for those who study in university or private tertiary education sector need to face this problem . For those who started to work since long time ago , they still need to learn about the communication skill , social skill and soft skills . This all things make us feel that we still alive in this world . If we can't learn this all skills and knowledge , then we can't survive in this cruel world . I can say that you are eliminated from this society . That is why all the students or people need to learn all the time although you are the high ranking officer in a international company . This is because there are someone in this world will do better than you since all the people are in the learning process .
Another thing that make us to stay alive in this world is love . This " LOVE " word can be described as family love , friend love or your life-partner's love . Why i said that ? With the presence of these Love , it will give you a reason to stay alive in this world . For example , for those who care about his/her family , you will make sure that all your family members will happy all the time . Therefore , you need to live better than them or more happier than them . If you want to make this become true , the first thing you need to do is to stay alive in the world . Because of this , your family members will have a chance to live with you , The same thing you need to do for your friends and life - partner .
The last thing is the responsibility . According to most of the religions in this world , they say that everyone in this world will have its own responsibility to live in this world . For example , For the Buddhists , they claimed that they need to pay back all the debts that they owe people last time . When you can pay back all , then you can enter the world that they called as western happiness world . However , if you cant pay back all when you die , then you need to reborn again to pay the debts . This is in the religion view . However , in my own view , i feel that there is a responsibility for us to stay at this world . For example , if you are a rich man , you have a responsibility to save the poor people by donating money or other material support . For those who in the middle class family , what you can do is to raise up the awareness in the public . This show that we have own responsibility to do in the world . Hence , we cant say that we are not suppose to live in the world .
After talking so much here , i feel that there are reason for us to stay alive in this world , no matter what kind of reason , as long as the reason for you to stay alive is good for the society or the world population , so , what we wait for ?
GO TO SEARCH FOR THE REASON FOR YOU TO STAY ALIVE !!!!!!!!!!
First at all , i think that the reason for us to live in this world is to complete our learning process in this world . I don't mean that only for those who study in university or private tertiary education sector need to face this problem . For those who started to work since long time ago , they still need to learn about the communication skill , social skill and soft skills . This all things make us feel that we still alive in this world . If we can't learn this all skills and knowledge , then we can't survive in this cruel world . I can say that you are eliminated from this society . That is why all the students or people need to learn all the time although you are the high ranking officer in a international company . This is because there are someone in this world will do better than you since all the people are in the learning process .
Another thing that make us to stay alive in this world is love . This " LOVE " word can be described as family love , friend love or your life-partner's love . Why i said that ? With the presence of these Love , it will give you a reason to stay alive in this world . For example , for those who care about his/her family , you will make sure that all your family members will happy all the time . Therefore , you need to live better than them or more happier than them . If you want to make this become true , the first thing you need to do is to stay alive in the world . Because of this , your family members will have a chance to live with you , The same thing you need to do for your friends and life - partner .
The last thing is the responsibility . According to most of the religions in this world , they say that everyone in this world will have its own responsibility to live in this world . For example , For the Buddhists , they claimed that they need to pay back all the debts that they owe people last time . When you can pay back all , then you can enter the world that they called as western happiness world . However , if you cant pay back all when you die , then you need to reborn again to pay the debts . This is in the religion view . However , in my own view , i feel that there is a responsibility for us to stay at this world . For example , if you are a rich man , you have a responsibility to save the poor people by donating money or other material support . For those who in the middle class family , what you can do is to raise up the awareness in the public . This show that we have own responsibility to do in the world . Hence , we cant say that we are not suppose to live in the world .
After talking so much here , i feel that there are reason for us to stay alive in this world , no matter what kind of reason , as long as the reason for you to stay alive is good for the society or the world population , so , what we wait for ?
GO TO SEARCH FOR THE REASON FOR YOU TO STAY ALIVE !!!!!!!!!!
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Understand ?
Recently , i watched a Korean drama . From this drama , i can learn some lessons or moral values . One of them is " UNDERSTANDING " . In the drama , the author said that everyone in the world seldom understands one person completely , although the person is our own parents . This is global phenomena now according to him . However , the author give me a good reason to explain why this phenomena happen ( in my own view ) . According to him , if we can't understand one person completely , then we will be friendly with him/her , talk with him/her , care about him/her or think about him/her . These all actions that we done are to try to understand him/her well .
When i listened to these all words , i fell that the author give me an correct answer . For me , i am that kind of person who seldom go to understand one person completely , although they are my parents . In my heart and mind , i think that this job is a hard work fro me . This is because i am quite a shame person when i knew a nee person . I seldom talk with a person i knew just 5 minutes ago because i don't know them so much . I scare i will talk something bad to them . If this case happen , then i will felt sad and give them a bad image .
TO avoid these happen , i will talk with them carefully and avoid to use same bad word to them . From the conservation with them , i try to understand them and categorize them into few rankings , that is normal friend , good friend , good friend but can talk secret with them and an understanding friend . I think that you all will fell strange or maybe angry because i categorize you all into these rankings . You all don't fell sad and angry because when i often talk with you all or gather with you all , that means you all are good friend to me .
And then , about what ranking you in ? Sorry , i can't tell you this although you want to kill me on this . However , i can give you all a tips on this , that is depend how much you understand me and how much i understand you . For sure , the answer for this will be only hidden in my heart and your heart .
" my coursemate "
" My new Friends "
" My new friends "
When i listened to these all words , i fell that the author give me an correct answer . For me , i am that kind of person who seldom go to understand one person completely , although they are my parents . In my heart and mind , i think that this job is a hard work fro me . This is because i am quite a shame person when i knew a nee person . I seldom talk with a person i knew just 5 minutes ago because i don't know them so much . I scare i will talk something bad to them . If this case happen , then i will felt sad and give them a bad image .
TO avoid these happen , i will talk with them carefully and avoid to use same bad word to them . From the conservation with them , i try to understand them and categorize them into few rankings , that is normal friend , good friend , good friend but can talk secret with them and an understanding friend . I think that you all will fell strange or maybe angry because i categorize you all into these rankings . You all don't fell sad and angry because when i often talk with you all or gather with you all , that means you all are good friend to me .
And then , about what ranking you in ? Sorry , i can't tell you this although you want to kill me on this . However , i can give you all a tips on this , that is depend how much you understand me and how much i understand you . For sure , the answer for this will be only hidden in my heart and your heart .
" my coursemate "
" My new Friends "
" My new friends "
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